Giving others what they want can help you in subtle ways

Giving others what they want isn’t something you do to get something. What you receive is connection, pure and simple. The overflow of giving to others is humbling. Through the lens of humility you see how you present yourself to others. It’s also humbling to recognize that living your purpose involves all sorts of mundane challenges, not just the ‘feel-good’ experiences.

Drawing from a maturity within you helps you correct or heal any issues honestly, spiritually and professionally. Then, no matter where a challenge shows up – whether at work, in the community, or at home – and no matter how tough things seem or actually become, the ‘why’ of your purpose keeps you in balance.

Your inner reason for being here is the checkpoint to remind yourself to treat others with the unconditional honor. It involves doing this, consistently. It means treating everyone – including yourself, family, and loved ones – with the same unconditional honor you’d give to a dignitary or honored guest.

That’s the practice unconditional regard

This practice of holding unconditional regard for others and yourself frees you from the inner critic. Otherwise, left to itself, the critic drains you. It drains others, even if you never voice its opinion. It’s energy is broadcast through you when you identify with it.

The other face of the inner critic is feeling sorry for yourself. The cure for that is the same: holding unconditional regard for what you’re experiencing and not giving in to usual theatrics.

Practicing unconditional regard energizes you, helps to reinforce your ‘why’

It just might be that your biggest reason for being here is to humbly offer a lifeline. One that another can grasp and then begin to offer, too.

You’re part of an interconnected web of others. These ‘others’ are really you. You can help those who appear as separate even if you don’t know them. They could be outside your perceivable circle of influence.

There’s always someone observing you, even energetically. If you can change your thought and emotion, others you man never meet perceive it as well as those you do.

As an alchemy master, you can serve a love feast

You have the opportunity to dish out this love. And to do so without saying a word or lifting a finger. That’s because, as an alchemy master, you’re not attached to results. You’re not looking for results to appear within your circle of interest. You don’t even seek reward for your offering.

Your reward is just the opportunity to be the alchemy master.